Life style and Love

Many a times this is what people go through. ..just know that you are not alone. ...but this is your story. ... I’ve recently been researching (about Men and Women)- And People are having a bit of a difficult time, which the more they think about it, the more ridiculous it seems. ------*----------it all starts here-----*--------- Nothing gives you energy or drains you of it the way love does. When things are going great, you feel full of life, vibrant, ready to take on the world.But when things aren’t going well, everything seems like a chore. Everything feels like it takes an enormous effort to accomplish. Waking up and getting out of bed in the morning can even seem like a daunting task. When it comes to love, if it isn’t reciprocated — even if only not to an equal extent — it’s your own personal hell. There is only one thing worse than coming to grips with the fact that the one person in your life who is your priority only sees you as an option. Love is the ego’s best friend and worst enemy. It can both reinforce all the great things we believe about ourselves and go on to tear it all down.When you love someone, you are opening yourself up to him or her. You are making yourself vulnerable,showing this person a side of you very few people ever get to see. Treating dates like options can sometimes be a bit of a pain. Sometimes, you have to wait a week or more between getting a girl’s number and meeting up with her. You can’t plan really complicated dates, and you often need to have some decent phone game to keep the emotional momentum going in between meetups, but in the end, it’s a much more effective strategy. Eventually, as long as she’s attracted to you, she WILL meet up with you in the end. And the hard-to-get, busy girls are usually the most fun anyways. The worst thing you could possibly do after discovering, to the person you love, you’re only an option is to try and distract yourself completely. That isn’t what you ought to do. If you need a few days of rampaging then be my guest, but be sure to slow down afterward and deal with the situation. Slow down. Find the lessons that need to be learned. Take some time to get reacquainted with the world around you, the physical world that exists outside of your head and move on. It won’t be easy, but life isn’t easy. It never will be. All you can do is continue working toward a better life, a better reality, a better world. And, of course,do your best to enjoy every step along the way. Never allow yourself to be someone’s option —especially not his or her second option.Have some respect for yourself and find someone who understands your true worth, how you deserve to be loved. Men:- To be a truly valuable man, you have to become one. It’s not about making a woman feel inferior, but instead raising your own worth. You have to honestly believe you’re a catch. You have to see yourself as deserving of a great partner. And you have to start thinking about what you want in a woman rather than just needing to be with a woman you barely know. Adios! JeremyGodsann. copyright 7th January 2016 by @jgodsann(twitter) Jeremy Godsann(fb)